That doesn't mean it was a good thing that feminism went too far and now we're technically 'better people' because of it, no - planting seeds of self hatred in boys is by no means good, but it has given us the closest thing to positive karma that exists. And thankfully it seems like that the pronounced indoctrination of males to hate themselves is subsiding at the perfect time for a lot of us to emerge in a repairable state. Our generation may not be united, healthy, comfortable or well-equipped but at least you and I are good people. We didn't grow up with inflated egos and as a result we're more well-adjusted and the criticisms of the most frequent misnomer "men" hurled sloppily by jaded misandrist ideologues doesn't apply. They may use the word "men" to describe you and I, but they really describe immature boys and miscategorize us under that term. The virtues of human character (compassion, integrity, strength doesn't hurt either) are what make a man. Feminism has that title being egregiously overused and in incorrect contexts, cheapening the worth of being one. Most women don't know what a man is until they get suplexed by (a black) one - these are called 'brothers' and have a more legacy grasp on the masculine tenets, derived from a time where domestic physicality was mundane. See I've spent 22 years railing against routine and now my life is dysfunctional. I see the necessity of routine but object to the discomfort it causes me, so I'm attempting to devise my own routines and manners of living